Now this is also for your own selfish reasons. A guy that is getting incredible sex from his woman is less likely to cheat. Also, he is going to be more willing to return the favor in and out of bed. Sex is just not as important for most women. But if he is being pleased, he is going to be more attentive to what is important.
Let me just say that great sex by itself will not keep a man from cheating. I do not want any woman to feel guilt about some jerk cheating on them. All I am saying is that it lessens the chances of that happening. Many guys have stayed in relationships because the sex was so good.
Here are the ways to please your man:
1. Masturbate. Guys are very visual. The site of a woman pleasing herself is a big turn on. This is not only good for him, but it is also good for you. This will hopefully lessen the time it takes for you to have an orgasm. Then just when you are about to have an orgasm, let him finish it for you. Both you and he will be happy.
2. Become Easily Orgasmic. Believe it or not ladies, the good guys really care about you have an orgasm. They want to you enjoy the experience as much as they do. The problem is that some times it can take so long that it ruins the mood.
This goes back to #1. If you know what pleases you, and if you are getting warmed up, then your orgasm will come a lot easier. To have to work an hour or more will just frustrate you and him. Find out what you like and show him. He will be happy to help.
3. Oral Sex. Wow, another newsflash. If this is something you do not like to do, that is fine. Just realize that most guys love it. If you can find a way to move past your issues with this your man will love you for it.
You should not be forced or encourage to do anything that will make you feel degraded, but the reality is oral sex is a major turn on for a guy. Not just the physical sensation, but the visual will stay with him a long time. There is still one thing that a woman did that gives me flashbacks years later. Uh, let us move on.
4. Find your own G Spot and then show him. Sure it would be nice if he took the initiative and looked for it, but you know most guys. Do you think that will happen? Good luck. Besides if he did, do you really want him playing around with your body off of some article he found on the internet?
No save him the time and you the aggravation and find it for him. That way it will be more pleasurable for both of you. Now you can spend your time pleasing and be pleased instead of trying to play anatomy.
5. Fake It. That is right. Most men really want their women to have an orgasm. Not only because it pleases the woman, but because it strokes the guys ego. Now you do not have to put on some performance from a porn movie, but just a nice orgasm is fine.
This benefits you also. You can avoid the frustration of having to wait. The guy is more likely to want to please you because he knows this want be a job. It also saves you time because then you can go do something you would rather be doing.
Hopefully this will help you and your man have a happy and steamier sex life. Turn up the heat in the bedroom and watch him turn up the heat everywhere else.
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