Why He Will Leave You After Sex

Has a man ever left you after sex and you never heard from him again? You may have just thought it was a one night stand. Are you making these mistakes and causing men to leave?

It seemed like it was going so well. The first date. Then the next date. Great conversation. Just seemed like an all around nice guy. Then it happened.

You had sex.

After that you didn't hear from him again. You probably just chalked it up to him being a jerk. Obviously this was just a guy that was after sex and you fell for his lines. You could be wrong.

It may have been something you did the next morning that scared this good guy away.

Most women will never know. Despite thoughts to the contrary most guys don't want to hurt a woman. So if she calls and asks what happened, he will ignore her calls. He just doesn't want to deal with her.

So what are the mistakes that you may be making?

1. Talking about spending the next day together. Okay, you had a great night of sex. Well maybe you had a great 15 minutes of sex. Whatever the case don't latch on to him like you have found the best thing since sliced bread.

This is a huge sign of neediness. If this comes right after the first time you have sex, a man will just believe it will only get worse. He can already see you taking him away from his hobbies, family and friends. This is a big do not do.

2. Talking about commitment. Talking about marriage, long term or any conversation that sounds like commitment at this point will drive him away. Any mention that you think he might be the one will be met by silence. If not silence, he will just agree and try to change the subject.

It is just too soon. Even if you have been talking about settling down with him for months and you have just now gotten to have sex, don't bring it up now. Timing is everything and this is just not the time.

3. Telling he was the best ever. Many women think this is a compliment. It really isn't. Most men only think this makes you sound like you have been with a lot of men.

He already knows he was good (no man thinks he was bad). To say that he was the best ever just makes it sound like empty flattery. You will NOT score points. Would you believe a guy if he told you that you were the hottest woman he had ever been with? Neither will he.

4. Not Saying Anything. This is just the opposite. You don't have to tell him he was the greatest, but you also do not have to give him the silent treatment.

Most guys really want to know that you enjoyed them and that you had a good time. When you immediately start talking about your plans for tomorrow, bills or other things, it makes the guy think that he didn't do a good job.

Mens' egos are fragile. If we don't hear some compliments we will just think that you are just too hard to please. We will not be back. Just too many other women that will stoke our ego. It is just not worth the effort.

If you have not heard from a guy after a great time together it could be because of what happened immediately after.

Don't make these mistakes. Don't talk about spending a lot of time together right away. Don't talk about the wedding plans right now. Don't tell he was the best ever. Also don't just go right into talking about things other that what just happened.

If you can avoid these mistakes you will have him calling you again and again. Be the woman the woman he can't forget, not the one that he doesn't want to remember.

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