You don't have to be frustrated and unhappy with your sex life. If you are it may be because you are making the same mistakes again and again. Correcting these sexual mistakes should help you have a more happy and fulfilling sex life.
1. Sex on the 1st date. If you make this sexual mistake, you will only be seen as someone to have sex with. If that is all you want from the relationship, that is fine. If you are wanting more, don't make this mistake. I don't care what men say, when you have sex on the first date you are seen differently.
2. Not being assertive in bed. This sexual mistake is very easy to correct. Speak up. Tell him what you want, how you want it and where. Too many women don't say anything, hoping he will notice. He wont.
Also part of being assertive is being more active in bed. Don't just lay there. Men hate that. Get on top, get in front and kiss him all over. The more you are into it, the more he will be into it. Most men want to see you have a good time, if for no other reason than there own ego.
3. Boring. This sexual mistake could really cost you. The same old way gets old after a while. Don't wait for him to change things. Take the lead and make the change. You don't have to play "nurse" to be exciting.
Rent movies, read books or ask friends. Keep your sex life new and exciting. This will help you because it gets boring for women as well as for men. Don't wait on the guy to change things. Make the change and get the reward.
4. The biggest mistake is picking the wrong guy for what you want. Don't pick some conservative guy if you are looking for a wild time in bed. Also, don't pick Casanova if you a looking for a committed relationship. Too many women pick men hoping they will change. He wont. He likes being the way he is. Know what you want and be patient enough to wait for it.
You can have the happy rewarding sex life you want. If you stop making those sexual mistakes, you will find more love and peace than you thought was possible. Not only that, but you will move closer to finding the just the guy for you.
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Saturday, July 28, 2007
Wednesday, July 25, 2007
Get Him To Love Kissing You
You may think it would take hypnosis to make you man love kissing you, but that is just not true. In fact it has little to do with him and everything to do with your mindset.
Do get discouraged if your man doesn't like kissing. Understand that is just how a lot of men are. They view it as just something to do before sex.
Tell him how much it means to you. Don't expect change overnight. What you should really be thinking about is improvement. That is the correct mindset.
If you have this mindset you will not get frustrated when it is not working out like you had hoped. Continue to encourage, love and please and you will see how quickly he will love kissing you.
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Do get discouraged if your man doesn't like kissing. Understand that is just how a lot of men are. They view it as just something to do before sex.
Tell him how much it means to you. Don't expect change overnight. What you should really be thinking about is improvement. That is the correct mindset.
If you have this mindset you will not get frustrated when it is not working out like you had hoped. Continue to encourage, love and please and you will see how quickly he will love kissing you.
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Tuesday, July 24, 2007
Female Masturbation Techniques
Just because you don't have a man doesn't mean that you can't enjoy a happy sex life. Masturbation will help a woman get in touch with what really turns her on. This is information that she can share with her man or keep to herself.
These are some masturbation techniques that will provide you hours of pleasure.
1. The shower head. A lot of female masturbation takes place in water. Not surprising. The warm sensation of being surrounded while you are also being pleased adds to the excitement of the moment. It is better if you have one of the shower heads that pulsates. You can find these at any department store. Never knew a trip to Wal-Mart could be so fun.
2. Tennis Ball. The hard ball with the fuzzy surface provides a great way to please yourself. Place the ball between your legs. This will work especially well if you lie on your stomach and allow the bed to act as a platform to hold the ball. Squeeze your legs tightly together and cross them at the ankles. Make sure that the ball is placed against the clitoris. Move back and forth on the bed in an up and down motion. No wonder they say it is love-love.
3. Panties. There are times when you may be out and can't wait to get back home. These are the opportunities where you get to use whatever you have available. Be careful that you don't rub to hard in the beginning because this will only cause irritation. If the cloth is placed evenly over the clitoris you should be able to achieve an intense orgasm in a short period of time. That fact that it might be in public will only add a little spice to you moment.
4. Thigh Squeeze. This one will take practice. Unless you have done this before you will need to work on this one. But of course part of the fun of this one will be your practice sessions. Don't get frustrated if you don't reach an orgasm right away. Be patient and your work will be rewarded.
In the beginning when you masturbate at home, make sure to squeeze your thighs together as you begin to have an orgasm. This will get you used to the pressure. Take you hands away and just use your legs to ride the orgasm. It will take a few times before you get used to doing it with no hands. Don't get frustrated. Keep practicing and pretty soon you will be able to have an orgasm simply by using your legs and imagination.
This is important because the more that you know what pleases you, the easier it will be with you get with you man. Having this knowledge will help you and your man in the bedroom. This is one home work assignment that you will love.
These are some masturbation techniques that will provide you hours of pleasure.
1. The shower head. A lot of female masturbation takes place in water. Not surprising. The warm sensation of being surrounded while you are also being pleased adds to the excitement of the moment. It is better if you have one of the shower heads that pulsates. You can find these at any department store. Never knew a trip to Wal-Mart could be so fun.
2. Tennis Ball. The hard ball with the fuzzy surface provides a great way to please yourself. Place the ball between your legs. This will work especially well if you lie on your stomach and allow the bed to act as a platform to hold the ball. Squeeze your legs tightly together and cross them at the ankles. Make sure that the ball is placed against the clitoris. Move back and forth on the bed in an up and down motion. No wonder they say it is love-love.
3. Panties. There are times when you may be out and can't wait to get back home. These are the opportunities where you get to use whatever you have available. Be careful that you don't rub to hard in the beginning because this will only cause irritation. If the cloth is placed evenly over the clitoris you should be able to achieve an intense orgasm in a short period of time. That fact that it might be in public will only add a little spice to you moment.
4. Thigh Squeeze. This one will take practice. Unless you have done this before you will need to work on this one. But of course part of the fun of this one will be your practice sessions. Don't get frustrated if you don't reach an orgasm right away. Be patient and your work will be rewarded.
In the beginning when you masturbate at home, make sure to squeeze your thighs together as you begin to have an orgasm. This will get you used to the pressure. Take you hands away and just use your legs to ride the orgasm. It will take a few times before you get used to doing it with no hands. Don't get frustrated. Keep practicing and pretty soon you will be able to have an orgasm simply by using your legs and imagination.
This is important because the more that you know what pleases you, the easier it will be with you get with you man. Having this knowledge will help you and your man in the bedroom. This is one home work assignment that you will love.
Monday, July 23, 2007
The Sensual Woman
This website is dedicated to all those women that love sex and being sexy. Whether you are married, dating, single and everything else in between, this is for you. It will cover male-female sexuality. Enjoy!
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Tuesday, July 17, 2007
Sunday, July 15, 2007
Make Him Love Your Kisses
Women love to kiss. Men tolerate it. Read how to make him love kissing you.
For most men kissing is just something you do before sex. It is considered by many to be just a form of foreplay. Like warming up the engine on a cold day.
Women view it a little differently. This is a chance to bond and connect on a emotional level. They also like it because it helps set the mood.
There are some things that you can do to make sure that your man loves kissing you and doesn't view it as a speed bump.
1. Smell good. This sounds obvious, but it can be distracting if the woman does not smell good. At that point it is easier to just focus on the sex. A woman would have to smell seriously bad for a man to give that part up.
2. Surprise him by having his favorite flavor in your mouth. This works even better if it is alcoholic. Not only will he get drunk on your good looks, but he will also be drunk with the alcohol. It may also relax you.
3. Get into it. Too many women kissing is like something that is being done to them, not with them. Show how much you enjoy his kisses. Move your body. Get all into the kissing and he will get more into you.
4. Make some noise. Although men are primarily visual, we also want to know that what we are doing is working. One of the easiest ways to do this is when the woman makes sounds. To hear that she is really getting turned on makes the moment that much more enjoyable.
5. Speaking of listening. Make sure you whisper in his ear. Tell him how much you enjoy kissing him. Also tell him this is really turning you on. The more he hears, the more he will get into it.
A man can really like kissing. They may never love it as much as women, but they can enjoy it more. The most important thing about it for both is having the right mind set.
To find out what the right mindset is that you need to get your man to love kissing and other tips
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For most men kissing is just something you do before sex. It is considered by many to be just a form of foreplay. Like warming up the engine on a cold day.
Women view it a little differently. This is a chance to bond and connect on a emotional level. They also like it because it helps set the mood.
There are some things that you can do to make sure that your man loves kissing you and doesn't view it as a speed bump.
1. Smell good. This sounds obvious, but it can be distracting if the woman does not smell good. At that point it is easier to just focus on the sex. A woman would have to smell seriously bad for a man to give that part up.
2. Surprise him by having his favorite flavor in your mouth. This works even better if it is alcoholic. Not only will he get drunk on your good looks, but he will also be drunk with the alcohol. It may also relax you.
3. Get into it. Too many women kissing is like something that is being done to them, not with them. Show how much you enjoy his kisses. Move your body. Get all into the kissing and he will get more into you.
4. Make some noise. Although men are primarily visual, we also want to know that what we are doing is working. One of the easiest ways to do this is when the woman makes sounds. To hear that she is really getting turned on makes the moment that much more enjoyable.
5. Speaking of listening. Make sure you whisper in his ear. Tell him how much you enjoy kissing him. Also tell him this is really turning you on. The more he hears, the more he will get into it.
A man can really like kissing. They may never love it as much as women, but they can enjoy it more. The most important thing about it for both is having the right mind set.
To find out what the right mindset is that you need to get your man to love kissing and other tips
The Answers To All Your Relationship Questions. Click Here
Thursday, July 12, 2007
How To Tell If A Man Thinks You Are Sexy
You like him, but does he like you? Even more importantly does he think you are sexy? Look for the clues to solve you mystery.
One of the hardest things for women to do is figure out if a guy really likes them. Does he really find them attractive or does he just want to have sex with them. Believe me most guys will tell any woman that she is attractive if he believes it will get them in bed. Use these clues to figure out if he really finds you sexy.
1. He changes your name. No it is not just becoming baby, sweetheart or cutey. Guys use these names just to avoid having to remember your real name. It is also not calling you by your real name. This means that a level of intimacy has not be reached.
When he gives you a nickname that only applies to you then you will know that he likes you. Now the name should be some form of your name. That way it couldn't just apply to anyone. Once he uses this name on a consistent basis, you know he finds you sexy.
2. He gives up his favorite night to be with you. When a guy thinks a woman is hot, he can't spend too much time with her. One because he wants to enjoy sex with her and another reason is because he does not want another guy to be spending time with her. When he stops hanging out with the guys or gives up doing his favorite activity, you should know that you are in good. If he gives up golf, it may be time to get a pastor.
3. He is always thinking about you. This is not just something he says to you right before he takes your clothes off. This means that he calls you during the day, he emails you often and tells you he is thinking of you. When he does this you know that he can't stop thinking about you.
4. He gets very physical with you. If you think someone is sexy, you can't wait to touch them. Even if you are not the hugging type, you look for situations when you can be next to them. That is because you are thinking of how they would feel in bed.
This goes back to when we were kids and the guy would hit the girl that he likes. It was just a way of touching her. Well the little boy has grown up, but men still do the same things.
Now that you know the signs, how should you handle it. Many women make the biggest mistake here.
One of the hardest things for women to do is figure out if a guy really likes them. Does he really find them attractive or does he just want to have sex with them. Believe me most guys will tell any woman that she is attractive if he believes it will get them in bed. Use these clues to figure out if he really finds you sexy.
1. He changes your name. No it is not just becoming baby, sweetheart or cutey. Guys use these names just to avoid having to remember your real name. It is also not calling you by your real name. This means that a level of intimacy has not be reached.
When he gives you a nickname that only applies to you then you will know that he likes you. Now the name should be some form of your name. That way it couldn't just apply to anyone. Once he uses this name on a consistent basis, you know he finds you sexy.
2. He gives up his favorite night to be with you. When a guy thinks a woman is hot, he can't spend too much time with her. One because he wants to enjoy sex with her and another reason is because he does not want another guy to be spending time with her. When he stops hanging out with the guys or gives up doing his favorite activity, you should know that you are in good. If he gives up golf, it may be time to get a pastor.
3. He is always thinking about you. This is not just something he says to you right before he takes your clothes off. This means that he calls you during the day, he emails you often and tells you he is thinking of you. When he does this you know that he can't stop thinking about you.
4. He gets very physical with you. If you think someone is sexy, you can't wait to touch them. Even if you are not the hugging type, you look for situations when you can be next to them. That is because you are thinking of how they would feel in bed.
This goes back to when we were kids and the guy would hit the girl that he likes. It was just a way of touching her. Well the little boy has grown up, but men still do the same things.
Now that you know the signs, how should you handle it. Many women make the biggest mistake here.
Tuesday, July 10, 2007
Why He Will Leave You After Sex
Has a man ever left you after sex and you never heard from him again? You may have just thought it was a one night stand. Are you making these mistakes and causing men to leave?
It seemed like it was going so well. The first date. Then the next date. Great conversation. Just seemed like an all around nice guy. Then it happened.
You had sex.
After that you didn't hear from him again. You probably just chalked it up to him being a jerk. Obviously this was just a guy that was after sex and you fell for his lines. You could be wrong.
It may have been something you did the next morning that scared this good guy away.
Most women will never know. Despite thoughts to the contrary most guys don't want to hurt a woman. So if she calls and asks what happened, he will ignore her calls. He just doesn't want to deal with her.
So what are the mistakes that you may be making?
1. Talking about spending the next day together. Okay, you had a great night of sex. Well maybe you had a great 15 minutes of sex. Whatever the case don't latch on to him like you have found the best thing since sliced bread.
This is a huge sign of neediness. If this comes right after the first time you have sex, a man will just believe it will only get worse. He can already see you taking him away from his hobbies, family and friends. This is a big do not do.
2. Talking about commitment. Talking about marriage, long term or any conversation that sounds like commitment at this point will drive him away. Any mention that you think he might be the one will be met by silence. If not silence, he will just agree and try to change the subject.
It is just too soon. Even if you have been talking about settling down with him for months and you have just now gotten to have sex, don't bring it up now. Timing is everything and this is just not the time.
3. Telling he was the best ever. Many women think this is a compliment. It really isn't. Most men only think this makes you sound like you have been with a lot of men.
He already knows he was good (no man thinks he was bad). To say that he was the best ever just makes it sound like empty flattery. You will NOT score points. Would you believe a guy if he told you that you were the hottest woman he had ever been with? Neither will he.
4. Not Saying Anything. This is just the opposite. You don't have to tell him he was the greatest, but you also do not have to give him the silent treatment.
Most guys really want to know that you enjoyed them and that you had a good time. When you immediately start talking about your plans for tomorrow, bills or other things, it makes the guy think that he didn't do a good job.
Mens' egos are fragile. If we don't hear some compliments we will just think that you are just too hard to please. We will not be back. Just too many other women that will stoke our ego. It is just not worth the effort.
If you have not heard from a guy after a great time together it could be because of what happened immediately after.
Don't make these mistakes. Don't talk about spending a lot of time together right away. Don't talk about the wedding plans right now. Don't tell he was the best ever. Also don't just go right into talking about things other that what just happened.
If you can avoid these mistakes you will have him calling you again and again. Be the woman the woman he can't forget, not the one that he doesn't want to remember.
These and other subjects are covered completely in the book The Woman Men Adore and Never Want To Leave. Click here to check it out.
It seemed like it was going so well. The first date. Then the next date. Great conversation. Just seemed like an all around nice guy. Then it happened.
You had sex.
After that you didn't hear from him again. You probably just chalked it up to him being a jerk. Obviously this was just a guy that was after sex and you fell for his lines. You could be wrong.
It may have been something you did the next morning that scared this good guy away.
Most women will never know. Despite thoughts to the contrary most guys don't want to hurt a woman. So if she calls and asks what happened, he will ignore her calls. He just doesn't want to deal with her.
So what are the mistakes that you may be making?
1. Talking about spending the next day together. Okay, you had a great night of sex. Well maybe you had a great 15 minutes of sex. Whatever the case don't latch on to him like you have found the best thing since sliced bread.
This is a huge sign of neediness. If this comes right after the first time you have sex, a man will just believe it will only get worse. He can already see you taking him away from his hobbies, family and friends. This is a big do not do.
2. Talking about commitment. Talking about marriage, long term or any conversation that sounds like commitment at this point will drive him away. Any mention that you think he might be the one will be met by silence. If not silence, he will just agree and try to change the subject.
It is just too soon. Even if you have been talking about settling down with him for months and you have just now gotten to have sex, don't bring it up now. Timing is everything and this is just not the time.
3. Telling he was the best ever. Many women think this is a compliment. It really isn't. Most men only think this makes you sound like you have been with a lot of men.
He already knows he was good (no man thinks he was bad). To say that he was the best ever just makes it sound like empty flattery. You will NOT score points. Would you believe a guy if he told you that you were the hottest woman he had ever been with? Neither will he.
4. Not Saying Anything. This is just the opposite. You don't have to tell him he was the greatest, but you also do not have to give him the silent treatment.
Most guys really want to know that you enjoyed them and that you had a good time. When you immediately start talking about your plans for tomorrow, bills or other things, it makes the guy think that he didn't do a good job.
Mens' egos are fragile. If we don't hear some compliments we will just think that you are just too hard to please. We will not be back. Just too many other women that will stoke our ego. It is just not worth the effort.
If you have not heard from a guy after a great time together it could be because of what happened immediately after.
Don't make these mistakes. Don't talk about spending a lot of time together right away. Don't talk about the wedding plans right now. Don't tell he was the best ever. Also don't just go right into talking about things other that what just happened.
If you can avoid these mistakes you will have him calling you again and again. Be the woman the woman he can't forget, not the one that he doesn't want to remember.
These and other subjects are covered completely in the book The Woman Men Adore and Never Want To Leave. Click here to check it out.
Wednesday, July 4, 2007
Helping Your Man Last Longer During Sex
One of a man's biggest fears is having an orgasm too quickly during sex. This will leave him and the woman unfulfilled. Sure he would have had an orgasm, but she will not be happy with the brief time that it took. Women generally take longer to have an orgasm and this will certainly ruin the mood.
There are things that you can do to help your man last longer. This will please him and you. So make sure that you get the enjoyment that you need and give him a stroke to his ego. He will thank you for it.
1. Go Slow. This is very important. This is one instance where speed kills. It will kill the moment, the passion and the mood. Don't let this happen. Go at a slow pace and this will prolong the time it takes for him to have an orgasm.
Sometimes it is the man rushing. This is when you have to take control and let him know that you want to enjoy the moment. If he has a history of having an orgasm too fast you will be helping him and yourself.
2. Variety is the spice of life. The same speed tends to generate a build up of tension. This tension is what leads to a orgasm. By building up and slowing down you will delay the time of the orgasm. This will prolong your and your mates enjoyment.
Another part of variety is taking turns. Focus on him and then allow him to focus on you. This taking turns will please both of you and also prolong the time of the man having an orgasm while maintaining the fun of the evening.
3. Lubrication. Very important. This will not only add to the length of time before an orgasm it will also add to the comfort for your man. He will appreciate your thoughtfulness. There is little pleasure in high friction on sensitive skin. Ouch.
The best one to use is KY. It washes off in water and that makes the clean up easier.
4. Allow him to have and orgasm first. This takes really knowing your man. If he is the selfish type he will have an orgasm first and forget about you. If he is not this will help him.
This helps because after a guy has an orgasm, it takes a while before his batteries are recharged enough to have another one. During this time he can be pleasing you and the second one should take longer for your guy than the first.
5. Have the right attitude. This can be a very embarrassing situation for your man. While for you it is unpleasant because you didn't fully get a chance to enjoy yourself, for him it is a blow to his ego.
The right attitude is supportive and passionate. Men hate sympathy. Don't say, "Oh, it is all right." We know it is not. Just keep going on with the session and find ways that the can continue to please you.
There are some physical
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There are things that you can do to help your man last longer. This will please him and you. So make sure that you get the enjoyment that you need and give him a stroke to his ego. He will thank you for it.
1. Go Slow. This is very important. This is one instance where speed kills. It will kill the moment, the passion and the mood. Don't let this happen. Go at a slow pace and this will prolong the time it takes for him to have an orgasm.
Sometimes it is the man rushing. This is when you have to take control and let him know that you want to enjoy the moment. If he has a history of having an orgasm too fast you will be helping him and yourself.
2. Variety is the spice of life. The same speed tends to generate a build up of tension. This tension is what leads to a orgasm. By building up and slowing down you will delay the time of the orgasm. This will prolong your and your mates enjoyment.
Another part of variety is taking turns. Focus on him and then allow him to focus on you. This taking turns will please both of you and also prolong the time of the man having an orgasm while maintaining the fun of the evening.
3. Lubrication. Very important. This will not only add to the length of time before an orgasm it will also add to the comfort for your man. He will appreciate your thoughtfulness. There is little pleasure in high friction on sensitive skin. Ouch.
The best one to use is KY. It washes off in water and that makes the clean up easier.
4. Allow him to have and orgasm first. This takes really knowing your man. If he is the selfish type he will have an orgasm first and forget about you. If he is not this will help him.
This helps because after a guy has an orgasm, it takes a while before his batteries are recharged enough to have another one. During this time he can be pleasing you and the second one should take longer for your guy than the first.
5. Have the right attitude. This can be a very embarrassing situation for your man. While for you it is unpleasant because you didn't fully get a chance to enjoy yourself, for him it is a blow to his ego.
The right attitude is supportive and passionate. Men hate sympathy. Don't say, "Oh, it is all right." We know it is not. Just keep going on with the session and find ways that the can continue to please you.
There are some physical
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