You don't have to be frustrated and unhappy with your sex life. If you are it may be because you are making the same mistakes again and again. Correcting these sexual mistakes should help you have a more happy and fulfilling sex life.
1. Sex on the 1st date. If you make this sexual mistake, you will only be seen as someone to have sex with. If that is all you want from the relationship, that is fine. If you are wanting more, don't make this mistake. I don't care what men say, when you have sex on the first date you are seen differently.
2. Not being assertive in bed. This sexual mistake is very easy to correct. Speak up. Tell him what you want, how you want it and where. Too many women don't say anything, hoping he will notice. He wont.
Also part of being assertive is being more active in bed. Don't just lay there. Men hate that. Get on top, get in front and kiss him all over. The more you are into it, the more he will be into it. Most men want to see you have a good time, if for no other reason than there own ego.
3. Boring. This sexual mistake could really cost you. The same old way gets old after a while. Don't wait for him to change things. Take the lead and make the change. You don't have to play "nurse" to be exciting.
Rent movies, read books or ask friends. Keep your sex life new and exciting. This will help you because it gets boring for women as well as for men. Don't wait on the guy to change things. Make the change and get the reward.
4. The biggest mistake is picking the wrong guy for what you want. Don't pick some conservative guy if you are looking for a wild time in bed. Also, don't pick Casanova if you a looking for a committed relationship. Too many women pick men hoping they will change. He wont. He likes being the way he is. Know what you want and be patient enough to wait for it.
You can have the happy rewarding sex life you want. If you stop making those sexual mistakes, you will find more love and peace than you thought was possible. Not only that, but you will move closer to finding the just the guy for you.
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Saturday, July 28, 2007
Tuesday, July 24, 2007
Female Masturbation Techniques
Just because you don't have a man doesn't mean that you can't enjoy a happy sex life. Masturbation will help a woman get in touch with what really turns her on. This is information that she can share with her man or keep to herself.
These are some masturbation techniques that will provide you hours of pleasure.
1. The shower head. A lot of female masturbation takes place in water. Not surprising. The warm sensation of being surrounded while you are also being pleased adds to the excitement of the moment. It is better if you have one of the shower heads that pulsates. You can find these at any department store. Never knew a trip to Wal-Mart could be so fun.
2. Tennis Ball. The hard ball with the fuzzy surface provides a great way to please yourself. Place the ball between your legs. This will work especially well if you lie on your stomach and allow the bed to act as a platform to hold the ball. Squeeze your legs tightly together and cross them at the ankles. Make sure that the ball is placed against the clitoris. Move back and forth on the bed in an up and down motion. No wonder they say it is love-love.
3. Panties. There are times when you may be out and can't wait to get back home. These are the opportunities where you get to use whatever you have available. Be careful that you don't rub to hard in the beginning because this will only cause irritation. If the cloth is placed evenly over the clitoris you should be able to achieve an intense orgasm in a short period of time. That fact that it might be in public will only add a little spice to you moment.
4. Thigh Squeeze. This one will take practice. Unless you have done this before you will need to work on this one. But of course part of the fun of this one will be your practice sessions. Don't get frustrated if you don't reach an orgasm right away. Be patient and your work will be rewarded.
In the beginning when you masturbate at home, make sure to squeeze your thighs together as you begin to have an orgasm. This will get you used to the pressure. Take you hands away and just use your legs to ride the orgasm. It will take a few times before you get used to doing it with no hands. Don't get frustrated. Keep practicing and pretty soon you will be able to have an orgasm simply by using your legs and imagination.
This is important because the more that you know what pleases you, the easier it will be with you get with you man. Having this knowledge will help you and your man in the bedroom. This is one home work assignment that you will love.
These are some masturbation techniques that will provide you hours of pleasure.
1. The shower head. A lot of female masturbation takes place in water. Not surprising. The warm sensation of being surrounded while you are also being pleased adds to the excitement of the moment. It is better if you have one of the shower heads that pulsates. You can find these at any department store. Never knew a trip to Wal-Mart could be so fun.
2. Tennis Ball. The hard ball with the fuzzy surface provides a great way to please yourself. Place the ball between your legs. This will work especially well if you lie on your stomach and allow the bed to act as a platform to hold the ball. Squeeze your legs tightly together and cross them at the ankles. Make sure that the ball is placed against the clitoris. Move back and forth on the bed in an up and down motion. No wonder they say it is love-love.
3. Panties. There are times when you may be out and can't wait to get back home. These are the opportunities where you get to use whatever you have available. Be careful that you don't rub to hard in the beginning because this will only cause irritation. If the cloth is placed evenly over the clitoris you should be able to achieve an intense orgasm in a short period of time. That fact that it might be in public will only add a little spice to you moment.
4. Thigh Squeeze. This one will take practice. Unless you have done this before you will need to work on this one. But of course part of the fun of this one will be your practice sessions. Don't get frustrated if you don't reach an orgasm right away. Be patient and your work will be rewarded.
In the beginning when you masturbate at home, make sure to squeeze your thighs together as you begin to have an orgasm. This will get you used to the pressure. Take you hands away and just use your legs to ride the orgasm. It will take a few times before you get used to doing it with no hands. Don't get frustrated. Keep practicing and pretty soon you will be able to have an orgasm simply by using your legs and imagination.
This is important because the more that you know what pleases you, the easier it will be with you get with you man. Having this knowledge will help you and your man in the bedroom. This is one home work assignment that you will love.
Sunday, July 15, 2007
Make Him Love Your Kisses
Women love to kiss. Men tolerate it. Read how to make him love kissing you.
For most men kissing is just something you do before sex. It is considered by many to be just a form of foreplay. Like warming up the engine on a cold day.
Women view it a little differently. This is a chance to bond and connect on a emotional level. They also like it because it helps set the mood.
There are some things that you can do to make sure that your man loves kissing you and doesn't view it as a speed bump.
1. Smell good. This sounds obvious, but it can be distracting if the woman does not smell good. At that point it is easier to just focus on the sex. A woman would have to smell seriously bad for a man to give that part up.
2. Surprise him by having his favorite flavor in your mouth. This works even better if it is alcoholic. Not only will he get drunk on your good looks, but he will also be drunk with the alcohol. It may also relax you.
3. Get into it. Too many women kissing is like something that is being done to them, not with them. Show how much you enjoy his kisses. Move your body. Get all into the kissing and he will get more into you.
4. Make some noise. Although men are primarily visual, we also want to know that what we are doing is working. One of the easiest ways to do this is when the woman makes sounds. To hear that she is really getting turned on makes the moment that much more enjoyable.
5. Speaking of listening. Make sure you whisper in his ear. Tell him how much you enjoy kissing him. Also tell him this is really turning you on. The more he hears, the more he will get into it.
A man can really like kissing. They may never love it as much as women, but they can enjoy it more. The most important thing about it for both is having the right mind set.
To find out what the right mindset is that you need to get your man to love kissing and other tips
The Answers To All Your Relationship Questions. Click Here
For most men kissing is just something you do before sex. It is considered by many to be just a form of foreplay. Like warming up the engine on a cold day.
Women view it a little differently. This is a chance to bond and connect on a emotional level. They also like it because it helps set the mood.
There are some things that you can do to make sure that your man loves kissing you and doesn't view it as a speed bump.
1. Smell good. This sounds obvious, but it can be distracting if the woman does not smell good. At that point it is easier to just focus on the sex. A woman would have to smell seriously bad for a man to give that part up.
2. Surprise him by having his favorite flavor in your mouth. This works even better if it is alcoholic. Not only will he get drunk on your good looks, but he will also be drunk with the alcohol. It may also relax you.
3. Get into it. Too many women kissing is like something that is being done to them, not with them. Show how much you enjoy his kisses. Move your body. Get all into the kissing and he will get more into you.
4. Make some noise. Although men are primarily visual, we also want to know that what we are doing is working. One of the easiest ways to do this is when the woman makes sounds. To hear that she is really getting turned on makes the moment that much more enjoyable.
5. Speaking of listening. Make sure you whisper in his ear. Tell him how much you enjoy kissing him. Also tell him this is really turning you on. The more he hears, the more he will get into it.
A man can really like kissing. They may never love it as much as women, but they can enjoy it more. The most important thing about it for both is having the right mind set.
To find out what the right mindset is that you need to get your man to love kissing and other tips
The Answers To All Your Relationship Questions. Click Here
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